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En este blog trato de contar mis primeras experiencias (y tropiezos) como mamá que quizas le sirvan a una madre primeriza como yo. Estaría bueno que ustedes tambien me comentaran sus experiencias!!

sábado, abril 01, 2006

Oiste hablar de la "angustia del octavo mes"???

Cuando uno siente que ya tiene todo encaminado.. El bebé tiene mas de 7 meses...duerme casi casi toda la noche de corrido.... toma la mamadera solito.... gatea.... te mira cuando le hablás... sonríe... y mil cosas lindas que va aprendiendo........ Se acerca la hora de la "angustia del octavo mes".

Que será eso??? Yo desde que me enteré que estaba embarazada me la pasé leyendo de aqui y de allá cosas interesantes sobre el desarrollo del bebé, y ya venía preparada...
Ojo, preparada creía yo que estaba...

"...La “angustia del octavo mes” o “ansiedad por la separación de la madre” es, en realidad, una etapa en el camino hacia la adquisición de uno de los aspectos básicos de la personalidad, como es la constancia emotiva del objeto, es decir, la capacidad de representarse constantemente en la memoria una imagen mental de la madre." (www.materna.com.ar)

A Uli le agarró justo en el octavo mes... volvió a despertarse varias veces a la noche, llorando. Quería estar todo el tiempo a upa mio.. lloraba cuando lo dejaba en el jardín.

Le pregunté al pediatra si era cierto, si existia la angustia del octavo mes. Me dijo que si, que existia y casi todos los bebés la experimentaban. “El nombre no es el adecuado, porque la angustia tanto puede aparecer en el octavo mes, como en el quinto o en el número catorce. En psicología madurativa se le da este nombre a lo que tiene que ver básicamente con el reconocimiento de lo propio y lo extraño”(www.materna.com.ar).

Como sobrellevar todo esto?? CON PACIENCIA!!!!!
Confieso que para mi fue muy, muy dificil. Yo estaba trabajando, llegaba cansada a casa, Ulises solo queria que lo tenga a upa, lloraba mucho, no dormía bien (corrijo: ninguno de los 3 dormía bien). Creo que yo estaba mas angustiada que él....

Al promediar el noveno mes todo fue volviendo a la normalidad... él estaba más contento otra vez. Recuperamos el hábito del sueño (aclaro que durante todo este período de angustia mantuvimos firme la decisión de que duerma en su cuna), volvió a quedarse contento en el jardín.......

Bueno, una prueba más superada.. quedaban todavía los dientes, las muelas, aprender a caminar, no querer comer... etc... etc............

info interesante: http://www.babysitio.com/bebe/desarrollo_angustia.php
http://www.planetamama.com.ar/view_pregunta.php?id_pregunta=530&id_etapa=35
http://www.crecerjuntos.com.ar/angustia.htm

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